A little over a year ago, a couple of things happened that HUGELY impacted my life. Outside of one Facebook group in which I’m very active, I pretty much abandoned all forms of social media. I had neither the time nor energy.
I’ve
mentioned before that my husband is a pastor. Well…one thing we do in the
African American church is we wear hats. LOL! Well not me. I’m a very occasional
hat wearer but I digress. Last September, the day before my husband’s pastoral anniversary
celebration, I accompanied a friend (also a pastor’s
wife) to a hat show. At the hat show, we met a lady who is also a pastor’s
wife. The two of them were talking & somehow it came up that I sew. “Do you
sew for others?” she asked. Occasionally. “Do you have any pictures of your
work?” CERTAINLY. Long story short, I showed her some pictures I had on my phone and we exchanged contact information. Ok we’ll
come back to that later.
Fast
forward a few weeks. My friend was having a really hard time finding anything
she liked for her husband’s pastoral anniversary celebration. (This is the first thing, by the way).
She wanted a specific color. A specific shape. It just was not to be found on the rack. She tried on one of my dresses. She loved the silhouette but it
unfortunately didn’t fit. I convinced
her in the 11th hour to let me make something for her. She didn’t
want to impose because it was such a last minute thing. Nevertheless, I made
the dress - same dress as the one she tried on. We added a sleeve. It fit beautifully. And she styled it to perfection. She posted a picture on Facebook and tagged me thanking me
for making the dress for her. All of a sudden I’m getting friend requests and
messages from people asking if I could make the dress for them. What else can I
make? How much would I charge? Whoa Nellie! I wasn’t prepared for any of this because
I don’t sew by trade. I am a business analyst by day and a hobby sewer by
night. The overwhelming response came as a complete shock to BOTH of us. That
was in October.
Lady Carla Nelson wearing vintage-inspired with boat neckline and 3/4 length sleeve.
The
next several months were a whirlwind of people both locally and across the country wanting me to sew for them. And it all happened so fast that I didn’t
have time to really prepare because it was not something I set out to do. So in
a nutshell, this has been the reason for my absence.
Right
now I’m taking a breather. Just taking some time to regroup and regain some
sanity in my personal life. My husband has been EXTREMELY supportive and PATIENT.
But right now we just need some “us” time. And I’m thinking long and hard about
if I will continue with sewing for hire and in what capacity. I haven't sewn a thing in a month except 2 pillowcases for a gift exchange LOL.
Lady Carla Nelson (left) and Lady Doniella Ligon (right)
both wearing vintage-inspired dress in ivory shantung.
I
have been challenged and forced outside of my little comfort zone so much and have grown so much in my skill over the last
year. I have so much more to share with you. Over the next series of posts,
I’ll be doing somewhat of a year in review and sharing some more of my “client
sewing” with you guys and some other things that have transpired.
Stay
tuned!